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Friday, 20 March 2015

Damn You!!

Recently, my uncle was admitted to hospital. He admitted on Tuesday. And discharged yesterday.

During those days he in the hospital, my family and i had helped them out a lot.

The first day, as usual lahh my grandma always asked us to do this and that. What also Pek Imm Pek Imm... (mum) ╰_╯
First day, got to wait for his turn to check this and that. So aunt was thinking to accompany uncle. Main problem was didn't have transportation. She just knew how to drive auto, but not manual.

So, ah mah told aunt:"aiya, Ann's sons are still young. Then Pey Gyn and Lik Jun already older mah, so can ask Pek Imm fetch you after she came back from work." Then aunt said ok and went to call mum.

That night dinner, ah mah told parents that 3 zhe also wanna go, but car no more space. Dad said asked be zhe la (Ann). Ah mah said don't talk nonsense la! I don't know what it mean..

After dinner, off to hospital. Aunt didn't come back that day and stayed at hospital together with uncle.

Next day (Wednesday). Can't remember what happened in the morning. Erm breakfast as usual.. Then in the evening, after dad back from work fetched me, bro, 2 cousins (uncle geh children) and ah gong to hospital. We fetched again, and it was all ah mah's decision!
Ah mah tapau-ed home dinner for uncle and aunt. *I was wondering why do you need to tapau for him? Hospital nothing to eat meh? Until this moment, it's not your turn to choose ehat you want and what you dont want to eat.* Wonder if she treats mum that good.... �� Not say that now treats her bad but it's the same as other daughter-in-law. But mum treats her super good! Always offer her transport to here and there, did you realize that? You ask her go to the west, she won't go to east!
Nothing much on that day already i guess.

Another day (Thursday, yesterday )..... Uncle could discharge from hospital. He can out in the afternoon but came home in the evening. Why??? Pek Imm AGAIN! Ya, because waited after mum finished from work and fetched them back from hospital. The first day uncle went in to hospital by his office's car and driver along with a secretary. But why couldn't back home by that way also?! Why must you asked mum fetch you too???! This time was also ah mah's decision.. i asked her why he doesn't want to take office's car and there's driver too! Ah mah said paiseh wor... But he works for the company helps the company to earn money, why must he feels paiseh? I was WONDERING if use company's service paiseh. But asking my mum to do all these shits... Won't you feel paiseh?!?! I AM SPEECHLESS ��

Today is the main one!
Ah gong repeated many times to ask mum whether she printed the papers or not don't know what BR1M la..
He asked me many times but mum haven't reply me what can i do? Why don't you call her yourself?!

Then when i was doing homework, i ACCIDENTALLY heard ah mah and aunt discussed about how to take uncle's car from the office. Uncle couldn't drive for one week. So got to ask leople fetch lor. And what i heard and what i felt unfair towards she said was… PEK IMM is busy during weekends so dont't know ask who to fetch *sigh*  So many sons and daughter-in-laws, why you choose PEK IMM?!?!?!

If i had the right to speak all my words, i would say out all the things that were already passed long…long…time ago.. Who cares??

And tomorrow (Saturday), mum volunteered to go to KL to drive uncle's car back home.

Many times, i could imagine when will i be like mum?
She is really kind, but over-kind.
Actually is not that great to be kind-ful, but avoid being kind-less. ☺
Being like mum is okay ah... ^^ Because although will be treated like maid but at least you are willing to. (Something like that)~
If macam me, got to follow what the elder one ask us to do. But does with a being-forced-heart... And the result will be not good. And maybe kena scold too. �� sigh!

Conclusion is..... In our house, the eldest either sons or daughter-in-laws will be treated like hell. If like that, I'd would rather go to hell! ������

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